This is a Nana and Nonna Story....one of many
I was no more then 3 or 4 when this happened and I recall the event but not the saying that prompted it.
My Godfather, Compare ( Gumbah) Jack's daughter was getting married and of course Nana and Pop Pop were invited to the wedding. I remember the day of the wedding clearly. My godfather owned a beer and soda distributor store in Brookln and they were very well off and lived very well. I remember going to the church, it was the biggest church I had ever seen, much, much bigger then St Mary's in Long Island City. Standing on the pew, I watched the Bride and Compare Jack walking down the aisle, I was amazed. I never saw people dressed like that before. I remember her dress had, I guess, large hoops on each side....making the dress very, very wide. and she wore a mantilla on her head. I guess she was dressed in a Spanish motif or something. (I think all these images stick in my head because never having seen the things I write about, my little computer mind downloaded all these picture and they are still on my hard drive, that could crash at anytime.That is why I am writing all these stories) After the church we went to a very large hotel, also in Brooklyn, for the reception. The room was huge, I will guess at least 250 people were there, a lot of them business associates i am sure... I remember people dancing and I saw my first band, so now I knew where music came from, (people playing instruments). I thought it was something that only came out of a radio.
This was my first excursion out in the real world, which I never knew existed.
Getting back to the story, I found out many, many years later that my mother and father asked Nonna to watch me the day of wedding.....but were told, that now very familiar saying..
"Those that make them, take care of them"
actually, I am very glad she said that, otherwise I would never have seen and participated in all that fun stuff that I remember of that day.